Thursday, May 7, 2015

Home Sweet Home

We have moved into our new home! We moved in at the end of March and it has been a whirlwind since. We are slowly settling in and feeling out the ways we want to make this place feel like our home. It is a home that is more than we ever thought we would have and a home we are truly grateful for. I have thought of it as many things from our forever home, to a home that we will raise our girls in at this stage of life, to our sanctuary and little place to get away from all that is swirling around us and enjoy our little family of five. In the past month God has shown me that it is the perfect home for this stage of where we are, but things change in an instant, so enjoy each day and don't look past the moment we are in as we may love this home, but at any time He can send us on a completely different journey. God has been stretching me and teaching me and in this season is teaching me not to try and plan out the future, but just live in this moment right now. The past 7 months have been a crazy ride and I was longing for a time when we would have a home here and just be able to breath, but God keeps stretching and challenging us and making us focus on our little family. All that said, I love this home, but see it in a different light than when we first saw it and purchased it. It is freeing and encouraging to view it as a home for today and not think beyond that. It is a time of growth around here and it is amazing to see how and what God uses to teach us!

So our home, it is one that Ben and I made the perfect compromises on and is a home that we have bought with our completed family in mind. It is a colonial style that is in a wonderful neighborhood and has a wonderful school that we can walk the girls to. It has many families in it and is a place that is a good investment and a smart investment (two very important things to us). It has an AMAZING yard!! That was a non-negotiable for us! The inside could have needed work, but we were not going to bend on a yard. We have lived without a yard and know what that is like, both as a couple and a family. Our girls need a yard and deserve one and that was our main goal in this home purchase. I also love a yard to enjoy and be in and am looking forward to a garden in the coming years. I told Ben that I will never be without a yard again, it is something that I enjoy and didn't realize I missed until we didn't have one. We have 5 bedrooms, 4 on one level, which is hard to find here, and a great guest space in the basement. We also have a basement! We wanted a play space for the girls and this basement provides that. We also have a great kitchen with an island! (Ellie and I were looking forward to that!) This home more than meets our needs and wants. We are comfortable here and are looking forward to the memories our little family will make here and the celebrations and journey we will have here for as long as God wants us to be in this space.

Below are some pictures of our new home right after we closed and moved in. We painted a few rooms before we moved in as the house was all one color and the color is a little purple. My intent is to post before and after pics as we slowly go through each room. Some rooms need final small details, such as the girls' rooms and other rooms need a little more. For the most part all the rooms just need some cosmetic changes, other than our master bath, which is nice, but not our style and will be our only main project in years to come. This home has been well taken care of and we know that any changes we make will only improve on the home's value, which is a very reassuring thing.

 The Front
We have a three car garage and have a few plans for some curb appeal. I am a landscaper's daughter, so I have a desire for a little more pizazz in the front, but as the leaves have begun coming in, things are looking a little better.
 The Foyer. It is a two story foyer that when you enter to the left is Ben's office, which you see in the pic and to the right you see the dining room and the kitchen and entrance to the basement is down that little hall.
 Plan here is paint, new lighting and a furniture piece and art.
 Ben's Office
 Office in progress. It has gotten paint and furniture set up. Ben does not need an office like he did previously as he has an office at work, so this is more of a computer room. Curtains and art hung is planned for in here.
Through Ben's office is the Family Room at the back of the house. This house has amazing light. We get great light in the back in the morning and then the front in the afternoon. The back is nice and shaded in the afternoon, perfect for playing and eating out there.
 Family Room
 Family Room in progress. It has gotten paint and furniture. Plan is to get curtains, hang art, update gold on fireplace and eventually change out furniture.
 Kitchen View from Family Room. To the left is the backyard, to the right is the foyer and in the back is the garage, 1/2 bath, and laundry/mudroom.

 Kitchen in progress. Plan here is to paint the cabinets, do a backsplash, paint the room, change the table, add barstools and curtains.
 Laundry Room. Plan here is tile, paint and change window treatment. I also want to have a little family command center.
 Huge Closet off of Laundry. Plan here is Ben is going to build out the space to create a mudroom with cubbies for all the girls' stuff. In the winter here you need a mudspace!
 Dining Room
 Dining Room in Progress. We have painted, changed the light fixture and bought furniture. Plan here is curtains and art.
 View upstairs from Quinny's room. Ellie's room and the girls' bathroom is to the left and to the right is Mia's room and our room. Plan here is paint and change fixture.
 Ellie's room.
 Ellie's Room in Progress. Plan here is Ben is fixing her bed and then curtains and art.
 Girls' Bath
 Girls' Bath in Progress. Plan here is new paint, paint cabinet, tile and some fixture updates.
 Quinny's Room
 Quinny's Room in Progress. Plan here is furniture, art and curtains. She has never had a big girl room, so Ben is making her bed and then we are on the hunt for her dresser.
 Hallway towards Master, Mia's Room on the right.
 Mia's Room
 Mia's Room in Progress. Plan here is art and curtains.
 Master

 Master in Progress. Plan here is art and curtains.
 Master Bath. Plan here is a complete overhaul. The home was built in the late 90's and this room needs some updates, but will be something that will be down the road.

 Guest Room. We have gotten new carpet, which is not shown. Plan here is paint, art, curtains and furniture.
 Basement, one half.
 My office space. Plan here is Ben is going to build me a desk/homework station for the girls and I, then art and remove chandelier.
 Basement playspace. Plan here is shelving/organization and art.
 Basement, second half.

 In Progress. Plan here is art and change curtains.
 Awesome deck and yard!!

 Plan here is deck furniture and a garden and plantings in time, but otherwise just tons of fun with our girls!!!

We are looking forward to memories here as long as God has us here!

Monday, May 4, 2015

7 and 8

Our sweet Mees has turned 7 and 8 months and is on the cusp of 9 months. She is such a little light in our lives. She is warming up to Daddy, but is still very much a Mommy's girl. Her little smile has given me great joy at a time when I have greatly needed it. She loves to eat and loves watching her sisters. She loves to snuggle with me and is relaxed for the most part. She is growing like a weed and has graduated from her helmet and her physical therapy! We are excited to watch her grow in the years to come and watch her little personality develop! Her sisters are very different so it will be interesting to see what traits she has.

 Last monthly pic in the townhome!

 Her first monthly pic in her nursery in our rocker!! The monthly pics are starting to get a little precarious as our baby explores!

What a sweet face!

Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Lives Well Lived

Last month was a month that was unexpected and was a month that has forever changed my life. The month started with the loss of my grandfather, PawPaw, while at the same time my grandmother, his wife, Grandmary, was admitted to the hospital and diagnosed with lung cancer. Within 8 days she also went to be with the Lord. I have had the immense joy of having all 4 of my grandparents in my life. They were like second parents and my relationships with them have been natural. They nurtured their relationships with me by allowing me to grow and allowing me to desire and want a relationship with them on my own. That is what made my relationship with them what it was. They have all guided me and prayed for me as I navigated this world. They helped make me who I am today as a wife, mother, daughter, sister and friend as well as follower of Christ. My first grandfather passed away when I was pregnant with Ellie, which was immensely sad to me. Having lost two more is a sadness that has been overwhelming at times as I grieve. They were my friends and were my confidantes. I know they have so much joy and peace with our heavenly Father, but that does not take away all my grief for their presence here. (GrannyFranny, I know you read the blog, don't be going anywhere anytime soon!! ;))

Grandmary has been my fiercest prayer warrior my entire life. She has seen me through many joys and valleys. It is her wisdom I long for everyday as it is unmatched. Her devotion to Christ was a sight to behold. She never met a stranger and as I told her in my last moments with her she has meant everything to me and my unending devotion to her was exactly how I know she felt for me. It is such peace to know that she without a doubt knew what she meant to me and the impact she had on my life. She prayed for every detail of my life and I told her she was not to leave this Earth until I was married, once that happened I told her she couldn't leave until she met my first child. She had a health scare when I was pregnant with Ellie and I told her she could not leave me until she met all my babies. Our God is amazing and allowed that to happen. As Mia and I ventured down to Tennessee to celebrate my grandfather's life Mia met my grandmother a few days before she passed and that was one of the greatest gifts I could be given.

PawPaw has also taught me an immense love for the Lord and an immense devotion to your spouse and children and grandchildren. He let his family be who God created them to be and go where God took them all the while loving us with all he had. There has always been something about his hug that gave such comfort and peace that is unexplainable. The way he said my name when I called and told me he loved me made all right in the world. I was so blessed to tell him I loved him in the last days of his life as at times he could only listen and not speak on the phone. He knew my love for him and I knew his love for me.

They both leave such an amazing legacy for their family of love for the Lord first and their families. All my family and I have always felt that they have loved us unconditionally and with a fierceness that is hard to describe. Ben will often say he is married to another Grandmary and that I have birthed him 3 more as he considers us to be quite the characters, as she was, and I tell him that is the greatest compliment I could ever dream of having. To be a tenth of who she was would be an immense honor to me.
 My Sweet Grandparents (They were celebrating my grandmother's 80th birthday! This was a couple weeks before Ellie was born!) They were a couple of such humor and wit as well as love! Their joy for life and their one liners could make anyone laugh at any time!
 Mia meeting Grandmary! My Grandmary was never without her "face" as she called it. She always had her hair done and her lipstick on, so to see her without it in the final days was a sign that she was ready to meet her sweet Lord.

 Though there for a sad reason, Mia did get to her PopPop, also known as the baby whisperer!

 And we got to meet our new cousin Baby Cooper! These two are definitely related!

And she got her Nana snuggles and gave Nana exactly what she needed during this time!

Thursday, April 9, 2015

Full

Wow, has life been full! It has been quite some time since I have blogged and life has been busy and full and the blog has taken a back seat. We have celebrated holidays and family successes and milestones. We have celebrated an unexpected visit to see family and lives well-lived. And as I sit blogging now I am celebrating that we have moved into our new home! It has been a crazy ride these past months but we are so excited to finally be settling into our new home and beginning to feel like this is home. We face new upcoming milestones and challenges, one being Ellie heading off to school in a less than 5 months, but as I look at all that has happened and we have experienced in the past few months I am grateful for my husband and my girls and the unending love of Christ. He meets me each day and has been teaching me good lessons as He molds me into the woman, wife and mother He desires me to be. My focus is being renewed on what is most important and other than Christ the sweet shining faces I see each day in my home are what Christ has called me to. I prayed diligently for years for these sweet girls and loving man and God answered my prayers and living life with them is what He has called me to in this season. They are my people and I could not be more blessed to live life with them!

 Valentine's Donuts
 Success! Sleeping with her head to the right!
 Sportin' Our Helmet
 Making Valentine's Cookies
 Rolled Over for the First Time
 Success! Sleeping on our Back! Big Milestone for her!
 Enjoying the Outdoors!

 Mid-March Snowstorm meant Snow Cream!


 Ellie completed her 7 weeks of ballet and had a recital!

 Our Awesome Ballerina!


 Finally making ice cream with our ice cream ball in our new backyard!

 My People! All smiles as Mia graduated 1 1/2 months early from her helmet!!
 A special little 5 year old learned to read!

 First swing outside! We moved here before she was big enough for a swing and then it got cold, so we were excited for her to have her first experience. She could not stop giggling!
 We have a little roller who rolls everywhere just like her sisters did!
Mommy Date!!